I have spent the last 12 days with my daughter in Edmonton. She was in a car accident and suffered some moderate injuries; including losing the most of the feeling in her left hand, arm, and jaw, and a concussion which has left her tired, confused, irritable, and with a very short memory.
Today has been a better day for her. I am hoping things will only improve from here, as I leave for home tomorrow night. She has to be off work a minimum of 2 months, and this leaves her worried about her finances as wage loss through insurance does not cover all of her income.
I am thankful that I was able to come and help her and enjoyed this time with her as we don’t get to see each other often! I am also very thankful for my sister in law who helped her the first day before I arrived and the great medical staff she has been blessed with.
Thankful that she is so alive with grace 💕
Today I went to my bank and asked them to wave my banking fees as I am a student. I have to bring in my student card every year, but it is worth it. I kept forgetting that the bank can do this and could have saved $25 a month in monthly banking fees… that is money I can now put towards debts.
I also had coffee at a local Resource Centre and received a free shoulder and neck massage as there were students who needed practical experience. That was an awesome treat!
I have started physio, kinesiology and massage therapy now. I go twice a week for physio and kinesiology, and massage once a week. I have done one week so far, and I am sore but okay. I am hoping to have more strength and less pain after the 14 week program. I find that my back is still sore after doing any prolonged standing or walking and my foot is still sore and randomly goes numb. I still have some nerve pain at times but it is better than before surgery.
Overall life is good. And the weather here is beginning to warm up, so I get to spend more time outside on our deck enjoying it!
I am a proud parent today. My oldest son completed his Criminology diploma and is now venturing onward to complete a degree.
He continues to amaze and astound with his perseverance and strength.
I recognize how difficult it was for him to be left behind when we moved, and to be thrown into adulthood while beginning his first year of college with little choice. There were times when he wanted to come home. There were times when he questioned his choice to complete his education. He is now half way complete and is looking forward to the next part of his journey. I can’t wait to see what the future holds.
Yesterday I saw the surgeon for my 3 month follow up. Although my. Ack has not begun to fuse yet, I can say I am about 20-30% better than before surgery. I have less nerve pain and less numbness. This is good 🙂
We made it with our limited budget this month, and still had a little bit left over so I put it into our debt to pay off a bit more. Our budget is the same for May, being limited but I did add a couple more categories I hadn’t considered – a monthly miscellaneous category for those times I give change to someone who needs it or we pay a parking meter, and a medical category, since I know I will need new glasses eventually.
I am hoping to make it to the end of May with leftover money to put on debt, but we will see.
We have planned to be without debt other than our house a year from now. It is a tough goal, but if we follow the budget it is doable!
I have been menu planning and we have eaten out less often, and my coffee addiction, well, we go less often but I still need to work on it!
How do you cut costs?
Today was a beautiful, sunny and productive day! I slept in, and sleeping is pretty rare for me lately. Then I had a coffee and began to clean the house. It takes me a significant amount of time to do this. Sometimes I don’t ever complete it.
I started in the bathrooms as my son is sick and because my immune system is compromised everything must be, for the most part, germ free. Normally I skip cleaning the bathtub because it is hard for me to do, but today I managed to complete this as well.
Then I took a break and took apart the vacuum cleaner so I could clean it (dust and dog hair all over a vacuum kind of defeats its cleaning value). I vacuumed upstairs and put the dishes in the dishwasher. Then I took another break.
My son was sick all day Monday but went to school today. I picked him up to take him to work. He said he still felt seagull but wanted to go to work anyway. I dropped him off and went back home.
Since I cannot mop the floors with a mop well and was sore from vacuuming, I hand washed them. It took 3 hours, but it got done. And I wiped all the switches and handles in the house with Lysol wipes.
When my hubby came home we splurged and went out for dinner. It was a nice treat. We have been doing very well on our budget, and still have a fair amount of money left considering there is only 12 days left in the month. It is a good sign 🙂
After supper hubby helped me make turkey stew and turkey noodle soup that we froze for dinners later. I feel like I really accomplished things today. Hoping tomorrow will be just as great. Thankful.
I was not going to make Easter dinner. But for years I have done so and not doing it feels wrong. So even though there are only 3 of us now, I ventured to the store to buy something – ham or turkey, or even chicken… so that I can make Easter dinner for when my husband comes home from work.
I found a small turkey. I got home and came to the realization that I have to thaw this turkey… haha! Good thing our microwave is big.
We will have turkey dinner tonight, and then turkey leftovers for a while 🙂
Ever have that day? You know the day… the day when everything feels like it is going to topple over you, suffocating you underneath all of the mess? I am having that day.
But I have plans. My day will not end in disaster. My day will end with sunshine and lollipops and rainbows in the sky. Because I cannot deal with the feeling of never-ending messes. I choose to find something good in this day. Something great even. Today is a sunshine day. A day of melting snow and warmth. A day that will end with me not turning on the heat, and possibly eating dinner outside. Today will be the good day, even with all of the turmoil of the morning.
The surgeon was happy to see me and says all of my symptoms are normal since I just had surgery. He also let me have a really cool picture of my spine. Prior to surgery the vertebrae was slanted and touching bone, essentially squishing my outgoing nerves. Now a cage and 4 screws hold my vertebrae up.